Marchr 7, 2017
Why you want to find girlfriend/boyfriend, it's because you really want to be with her/him, or you just don't be alone, or even worse - people tells you, you should get a girlfriend/boyfriend. And since when did being single become some sort of disease that everyone wants to get rid of?
I was walking down the street last night after work, suddenly, some scenes into my head made me smile, which are some funny conversations between me and my boyfriend happened in the daytime. The most wonderful thing is even you are alone, but some things still make you smile, when you happy, you two share happy together, when you sad you two huddled together to comfort each other, he/she gives you soul pillar.
Lack of love, affection and emotional support; not having someone to go on vacation with; not having someone to share domestic tasks with; being excluded from social gatherings because I don’t have a partner; not having someone to talk to at home on a day to day basis; having to cope with the financial burden of being single (apartment, bills etc.); not having a regular source of quality sex available.
We all need connection. The very reason we’ve survived as a species is because we’ve learned to live interdependently. Humans are biologically wired to require love, validation and belonging and the longer we try to deny this for, the more miserable we’re going to make ourselves. Alone may be the new black, but it’s just as dreary a shade. So, we do need to get rid of being single anyway. No matter what kind of person are you, playboy, or introvert, you need to make friends with your heart, especially, when you meet someone especial. In this noisy and fickle world, it's hard to find your ideal match, but you need to try it. Love is not finding someone to live with. It's finding someone you can't live without.